Freedom From Negativity

How often do you repeat negative things to yourself, sabotage your best efforts, and continue on the path of destructive behavior when it comes to your work, finances, health and love? Even if you aren’t aware of your negative self-talk or self-sabotage, if you’re life isn’t where you want it to be, I can guarantee you’re doing it. No matter how hard you’ve tried to succeed you just can’t get to where you want to be.  

Many people will simply accept their life as-is, even if they aren’t happy or fulfilled. They figure that this is what fate has dished out and there’s nothing they can do about it. They remain prisoners of their own negative thinking, and thoughts equal action or inaction.

It’s never too late to turn things around and enjoy freedom from negativity. One of the first keys to mind power success is realizing and accepting that you manifest everything in your life. Whether you’re overweight, lonely, broke, or hate your job, you’ve attracted it into your life. This is where some people will stop reading. They don’t want to believe they’ve invited negative people or situations into their life. They refuse to take responsibility and so they’ll always remain victims. What this means is whether they won the lottery, found Mr. or Ms. Right, or any other good thing came their way they’d find some way to mess it up and get right back to where they were before.

They wouldn’t recognize a good thing if it fell in their laps. Why? Because of subconscious programming. Your brain can only recognize what it’s used to seeing and experiencing. This means you’ll live a life of suffering, struggling, or stagnation because you’re used to it.

Many programs and exercises may not help at all or only work for a short time since they don’t go deep down where early life experiences and memories are rooted. Although you may find success temporarily those habitual ways of thinking and reacting will overpower your attempt to free yourself. That’s why so many people buy book after book, hoping to find the answer that will finally help them turn everything around.

So how do you disrupt this early childhood programming? It’s easier than you think. The reason we grope around in the dark and never find our way in life is because we have so much belief in what we’ve learned. If your father said you were stupid then you must be stupid. If your mother said you were fat or lazy then you must be fat or lazy. It doesn’t mean you like it or want it, you just believe it.

Once you begin to challenge your way of thinking and start to question the “facts” you’ve learned along the way, you’ll be able to release the faulty programming since you won’t believe it anymore. You can allow your adult mind to form new beliefs and will be able to act based on these. In time, if you no longer find these helpful you can form different beliefs until you find what works for you. Always, always question your beliefs, especially if you aren’t happy with where your life is. You don’t have to remain a prisoner of what your parents or other adults programmed into your mind, you can have freedom from negativity.

In my best selling book Reprogram Your Subconscious I go into much more detail on how to change your negative thinking habits. I also cover subjects such as programming yourself for wealth, attracting and keeping true love, the healing power of the mind, getting past self-sabotage, reprogramming your mind in three easy steps, and much, much more. Get your copy now and start changing your life today!

Light and blessings,

Kelly

Still Struggling? Here's Why

Are you stuck in one or more areas of life and, no matter how hard you try, things stay the same or move forward at a snail’s pace? Why does this happen? Why are you still struggling despite your best efforts? How can you be successful?

The answers to these questions are actually pretty simple yet they might not be what you want to hear. It seems that most people are looking for the magic answer that will propel them from point A to point Z over night. It doesn’t work that way. I know you don’t actually expect instant results but you do want to see some results for your efforts, right? Then why is your life stubbornly stuck?

Whether you want to find your soulmate, get a better job, end your financial worries once and for all, shed those extra pounds, or find your life purpose, it all has to do with the connection between your brain and your soul. As you go through life you’re in a constant tug-of-war with your logical mind and your spiritual soul. Also, your gray matter has had some faulty programming along the way due to your past. What you grew up with is who you’ve become, like it or not. Sure, you can change it, but it takes time.

Maybe you’re aware that the past has really done a number on you or perhaps you’re totally oblivious. The bottom line is you want things to be different. A few of the reasons why your life isn’t moving or you can’t find what you’re looking for are:

The One Track Soul

The more I do readings the more I realize that the soul prefers to handle one problem at a time. Once that’s taken care of it can move on to something else. For example, I have several clients that have been struggling with their jobs. Some want out and want a better job but they can’t seem to find one. Others are dealing with negative people in the office who make it impossible to enjoy their work. Still others are simply bored and want a more fulfilling career. Since working takes up a great deal of time every day it’s naturally at the forefront of their mind. However, some of these clients also want to find their soulmate, but true love remains elusive. Why?

Since their careers are on their mind so much the brain and soul consider this a top priority and everything else is pushed aside. What you focus on expands. It doesn’t matter if Mr. or Ms. Right was standing in front of them, they wouldn’t notice this person or would somehow find fault. Their souls are in “career mode” and until they do something about it true love will be difficult, if not impossible, to find. This is the frustration of dealing with the one-track soul.

The best way to blast through this problem is to learn how to let things go and not bring them home with you, or to really rev up your career engines and get things moving. How often have you told yourself that you’re trying hard and doing all you can? Think about it though, are you really? Most of the time we spend far more time worrying and thinking than actually doing! Rather than dwelling on how badly you want things to change make a commitment to do something about it each and every day. Taking small steps will add up to big changes over time.

Karmic Lessons

This is the other reason why life gets stuck or we keep finding ourselves in the same situations again and again. In past lives and even our current life we’ve made mistakes, hurt others, and have hurt ourselves as well. A past life reading can uncover your most important karmic lesson at this time, but an easy way to find out what it is you need to heal and mend is to take a look at your life and see where it isn’t working. What’s the major problem right now? Is it the fact that you’re in a bad relationship or keep choosing people who don’t treat you right? Does money slip through your fingers no matter how careful you try to control it? Do you struggle with weight or anxiety or low self-esteem or anger or addictions or anything else that continuously holds you back? Read the rest here...

Three Steps To Make The Law Of Attraction Work For You

There's really no secret to the law of attraction. In fact, there are three simple steps that will make it work for you. Whether you realize it or not, the law of attraction is always working in your life. Most people don't believe this is true since they believe that the law of attraction only brings good things.

If there aren't many positive things going on in their life then they think "the Law" isn't working for them, but the truth is that positive attracts positive and negative attracts negative. If you're life isn't filled with success, happiness, love, health and abundance you aren't using the law of attraction to benefit yourself, you're subconsciously focusing on negative and attracting that instead. But here's how to change it.

Make Your Intentions Clear

You have to know what you want before you can ask for it and start making the Law work for you. Knowing what you want isn't easy though. Sure, you instinctively know when you're hungry, hot, cold, thirsty, happy, afraid, and so on. The problem is, your conscious and subconscious is filled with so many thing from your past, present, and even future hopes and worries that it's difficult to focus on what you actually want at this point in time.

Think about what your truly want for your life and in your life. Make a list of at least 3-10 clear goals. Why do you want these things in your life? How will it help you or make you happier? Without clear intentions there's no way you can attract what you truly want and need.

Your conscious and unconscious thoughts produce everything you have in your life. If every part of your mind and soul aren't in sync with what you truly want to attract then you'll continue to live the life you've been living or live in chaos. When your conscious and subconscious are contrary to one another you'll defeat yourself every step of the way.

Visualize That It's Already Yours

Set aside a few minutes each morning and each evening to visualize what you want. Close your eyes and imagine in every detail what your life will be like if you had this (person/job/money/home/weight loss/etc.) in your life. Visualize yourself already having it in your life since this is very important in making the law of attraction work for you. Focusing on having what you want creates positive energy. It sends out vibrations into the world and universe that come back to you, bringing you what you desire most.

Be Ready To Receive

This is the one area where most people fail. They change their thoughts to focus on positive things, they do their visualization, but they simply can't open themselves up to receiving the abundance they crave. Whether they feel they don't deserve good things or have simply gotten into the habit of living life as-is, they usually hit a a wall at this point in their path.

You have every right to be as happy and successful as the next person. Nobody is born under a lucky star, we are all capable of greatness. Know that you can and will have all you desire then be open to receiving it.

What things do you hope to attract within the next 12 months and which things do you want to let go of? I'd love to hear from you!

Light and blessings,

Kelly (Psychic Readings By Dr. Kelly)