How Do I Strengthen My Psychic Abilities?

The number one way to strengthen a psychic gift is to practice using it more often, every day if you can. Use it or lose it. You don’t need special equipment or stones or potions or what have you. All you need is yourself. Now, depending on which psychic ability you’re working on will determine how you should strengthen it.

If you want to clearer dream messages from your guides, deceased loved ones, your higher self, or even your soul mate, while you lay in bed at night and before falling asleep ask your guides (or whomever) to come into your dream. Ask a question and for them to make their messages clear, and tell yourself that you’ll remember the dream when you wake up. As soon as you awake from the dream write it down. Keep a notebook and pen by your bed just for this purpose. Over time you should find that your dreams become more focused and helpful.

If you want to sharpen your gift of psychometry (being able to read objects), an excellent way to do this is to visit antique stores. Take your notebook and pen with you and if an object seems to catch your attention, hold it and see what information you get. Sometimes there’s no way to check if what you’re feel or see is true, but it’s still a very good way to hone this ability. You can also get a few envelopes and have a friend or family member put a photo in each envelope and seal it. You can then choose one envelope and write down in your notebook, or say aloud, what you sense is inside. You don’t have to be right on the money, but you could sense a color, object, or time period. Do this with each envelope then open them and see how close you were.

These are just two ways to enhance your abilities. I cover more in my short yet very helpful book Psychic Living - Developing Your Intuition.

Should I focus on my strongest psychic ability or all of them?

Every good psychic is well-rounded. Even if you don’t plan to offer your psychic readings professionally and only want to do it for yourself, it’s good to focus on all psychic abilities. Over time you may find that some come and go, one is strongest and one or a couple others are there but not as strong, or you could uncover other abilities you never knew you possessed.

In my own experience I started out doing automatic writing and getting in contact with my higher self and spirit guides. I then tried tarot, psychometry, lucid dreaming, dowsing, and many more. There’s not much I haven’t tried and it was very eye-opening and exciting. Through my journeys I discovered that I’m very good at reading past lives, connecting with spirit guides, psychic empathy, and clairvoyance, along with a few others. I also found out that I’m not very good at finding lost objects or dowsing. When I think over everything I’ve explored it really excites me because it opened new doorways that forever would have been closed had I not taken the initiative to give it a try. I also met a lot of interesting and wonderful people along the way.

Focus on your strongest trait and always work on this, but try new things all the time. You may be surprised at what you find!

Light and blessings,

Kelly

Still Struggling? Here's Why

Are you stuck in one or more areas of life and, no matter how hard you try, things stay the same or move forward at a snail’s pace? Why does this happen? Why are you still struggling despite your best efforts? How can you be successful?

The answers to these questions are actually pretty simple yet they might not be what you want to hear. It seems that most people are looking for the magic answer that will propel them from point A to point Z over night. It doesn’t work that way. I know you don’t actually expect instant results but you do want to see some results for your efforts, right? Then why is your life stubbornly stuck?

Whether you want to find your soulmate, get a better job, end your financial worries once and for all, shed those extra pounds, or find your life purpose, it all has to do with the connection between your brain and your soul. As you go through life you’re in a constant tug-of-war with your logical mind and your spiritual soul. Also, your gray matter has had some faulty programming along the way due to your past. What you grew up with is who you’ve become, like it or not. Sure, you can change it, but it takes time.

Maybe you’re aware that the past has really done a number on you or perhaps you’re totally oblivious. The bottom line is you want things to be different. A few of the reasons why your life isn’t moving or you can’t find what you’re looking for are:

The One Track Soul

The more I do readings the more I realize that the soul prefers to handle one problem at a time. Once that’s taken care of it can move on to something else. For example, I have several clients that have been struggling with their jobs. Some want out and want a better job but they can’t seem to find one. Others are dealing with negative people in the office who make it impossible to enjoy their work. Still others are simply bored and want a more fulfilling career. Since working takes up a great deal of time every day it’s naturally at the forefront of their mind. However, some of these clients also want to find their soulmate, but true love remains elusive. Why?

Since their careers are on their mind so much the brain and soul consider this a top priority and everything else is pushed aside. What you focus on expands. It doesn’t matter if Mr. or Ms. Right was standing in front of them, they wouldn’t notice this person or would somehow find fault. Their souls are in “career mode” and until they do something about it true love will be difficult, if not impossible, to find. This is the frustration of dealing with the one-track soul.

The best way to blast through this problem is to learn how to let things go and not bring them home with you, or to really rev up your career engines and get things moving. How often have you told yourself that you’re trying hard and doing all you can? Think about it though, are you really? Most of the time we spend far more time worrying and thinking than actually doing! Rather than dwelling on how badly you want things to change make a commitment to do something about it each and every day. Taking small steps will add up to big changes over time.

Karmic Lessons

This is the other reason why life gets stuck or we keep finding ourselves in the same situations again and again. In past lives and even our current life we’ve made mistakes, hurt others, and have hurt ourselves as well. A past life reading can uncover your most important karmic lesson at this time, but an easy way to find out what it is you need to heal and mend is to take a look at your life and see where it isn’t working. What’s the major problem right now? Is it the fact that you’re in a bad relationship or keep choosing people who don’t treat you right? Does money slip through your fingers no matter how careful you try to control it? Do you struggle with weight or anxiety or low self-esteem or anger or addictions or anything else that continuously holds you back? Read the rest here...

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Exercises: Your Image Of Success

What You Focus On Expands

Exercises: Your Future Life

Paralyzed By Fear

Exercises: Making Changes

The Universal Monkey Wrench

Exercises: Embracing Change

Not My Lucky Life

Exercises: Attracting Luck

Make Room For Your Dreams

Exercises: Uncovering Your Dreams

Quick And Easy Intuition

Exercise: Developing Your Intuition

Is This All There Is?

Exercises: Finding Your Life Purpose

My Big Fat Karma

Exercises: Releasing Karma

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I'm Not Good Enough

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The Control Freak

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The Volcano

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What If?

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It's Not My Fault

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Different Types Of Spirit Guides And Their Roles

Who Are These Guides?
 

Higher Guides –
 

What I have experienced through my personal meditations and reading for others is that there are very high guides who have never been on earth and are pure energy. They're the ones most concerned with soul growth and know that everything happens for a reason, so they let us make mistakes and stumble along.
 

When we connect with them through meditation they offer higher guidance, always associated with soul growth and your life purpose. Their energy is very comforting, much like a loving parent.
 

Middle Guides –
 

Then there are the middle guides that have been on earth many times in human form and now choose to help us from the other side. I believe that this is where we’ll end up eventually, if we choose. We’re reincarnated many times, learn a whole lot of lessons, grow wiser and stronger, and are ultimately finished with our Earth lives. When this happens, you may choose to become a spirit guide for younger souls on Earth. These are my favorite types of guides since they know what it’s like to be human but are infinitely wise at the same time.
 

Lower Guides –
 

There are also spirits of those who have recently crossed over and act as guides to help us out while they learn a lesson or complete something for themselves in the process before they're reincarnated.
 

Sometimes these guides need to reveal how they died, a message they have for someone they left behind, or need to learn a lesson through you.
 

As an example, one of these guides I attracted had always been rather wimpy in life and really regretted it. Well, at times I tend to be a bit wimpy myself so we worked on this together. In the process we both learned to be stronger and he was able to move on. I call these types of guides “lower guides” though there’s nothing low about them; they’re just lower on the spirit guide totem pole than the others.
 

How Long Do Spirit Guides Stay?
 

Middle and lower guides come and go, but the higher ones are always the same throughout your life. There aren't many of them and they watch over us, kind of like flocks of sheep. When you're born you're appointed a very high guide that stays with you like a parent. The middle and lower guides usually stick around while you're going through something new in your life and during trying times. Lower guides come and go quickly. In fact, some just pass through for a moment.

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Light and blessings,

Kelly (Psychic Readings By Dr. Kelly)