How To Create Good Luck

You may know people who seem to have been born lucky, but if you look closely you’ll see that most of them follow a few simple guidelines that actually CREATE good luck. Now you can have this “secret recipe” and create a fountain of good luck in your own life. Remember, practice makes perfect, so don’t give up. These methods do work at helping to create luck!   

Keep Your Goals Flexible

When we have preconceived notions of how we THINK things should work out, we end up closing many doors to other possibilities. Say for example that you want this one particular job or person. Your mind is set on this one goal and that’s that. Nothing or nobody else will do. You have your vision board, your affirmations, your prayers, your self-hypnosis sessions, or whatever else you put into practice for goal-attainment. With your laser beam focus you concentrate on that one lone prize. You wait, and wait, and wait yet it never comes. Meanwhile, unknown to you, whole parades of other opportunities have passed you by! The Universe listens and sends us what we need to be happy and successful, yet too many times we’re closed off to this because we’re too focused on what we think we want.

Get Out Of Your Way

Yes, you may be getting in your own way. This happens when we try too hard or focus on the negative in our lives and not the positive. Like a silent mantra we repeat over and over again all of the bad things in our lives, all of the things we don’t want, and are completely oblivious to all of the good things. Everyone has some positive things going on. Instead, we unconsciously set up negative barriers all around us that are so wide and tall that opportunity couldn’t possibly find its way to us. We need to focus on the positive so the Universe will send more of it. We need to move forward with confidence rather than yearning for complete control. We need to believe that things will happen as they should for our own highest good. Count your blessings and they'll multiply!

Let Go Of Fear

This is a biggie! As humans we’re creatures of habit, even bad habit. We fear change because we don’t know what will happen. Even if our life isn’t where we’d like it to be, at least we know where it is. When we open ourselves up to change that’s pretty scary. Sure, we know what we’d like to happen, we try to focus on being positive, but still we hang on to the edge of that cliff for fear that we’ll fall rather than fly. Practice taking small risks and making tiny changes so that you grow comfortable with it. Once you stretch yourself beyond your current comfort zone, you’ll never go back. Soon you’ll look on your old life and wonder why you were so afraid to leave it behind.

Practice Patience

Whether you’re trying to lose weight, become financially stable, build a business, or repair your marriage, expecting huge changes right away is the quickest route to disappointment. We get frustrated and give up too quickly when the scale doesn’t move or our bank account stays in the negative. Things didn’t get as they are overnight. The way your life is right now is a sum total of every decision you’ve ever made. It’s the result of action and inaction.  Anything worth achieving takes time.

By following these guidelines and moving forward with courage, confidence, and perseverance, you can create good luck in your life every day. Each moment is filled with choices; commit to making the best ones possible!

Light and blessings,

Kelly

Finding Your Spiritual Energy - Become Your Higher Self

I'm excited to share this excerpt from my new book Become Your Higher Self--Using Spiritual Energy To Transform Your Mind, Body, Soul & Life!
Finding Your Spiritual Energy
Spiritual energy isn’t the same for everyone. There isn’t a spiritual blueprint everyone should follow, leading them to a life of bliss. Instead, you need to discover what matters most to you. Only then will you become the powerful being you were meant to be.

You can read through the following questions and answer them in your mind or, better yet, write in a journal or open a blank document on your computer and type your thoughts out.

1. What fills you with spiritual energy?
Remember, we aren’t talking about religion. Your spirituality relates to your connections with people, the planet, and all living things. It’s something you enjoy and feel really good about. In turn, this energy goes deep inside you, lighting those internal spiritual fires.
For example, I love being in nature. I live in Baltimore and feel steeped in my own spirituality simply by spending time among the streams and lakes, trees and flowers. Often I’m filled with such an incredible force I feel like I literally glow from the center of my being. In turn, this force colors my actions and reactions, reaching out and affecting everyone around me.
There are many activities that can fill us with spiritual energy such as volunteering, playing music, dancing, spending time with loved ones, meditating, and so on. Dozens of things fill me with spiritual energy, nature is just one of them.
2. Who makes you feel most energized?
Who do you like being around? What is it about her/him that makes you feel this way? Does this person make you feel happy, connected, enlightened, more aware, or optimistic? What traits of this person would you like to incorporate into your own life?
When I was younger I surrounded myself with many people. Some lifted me up while others put me down. Some made me feel light and energized, while others had me feeling drained and depressed. After my spiritual awakening I realized what a waste it was having people in my life who dragged me down. Now I choose to only interact with others who are spiritually energetic.
One person I love having in my life is Cassie. She doesn’t even know she’s a spiritual person and it doesn’t really matter. Our energies complement each other well and we spend time together at least once a week. She faces each problem she encounters with confidence and conviction, and she’s one of the most laid back people I know. Not much ruffles this lady’s feathers, and she’s always trying to better herself. Once she reaches one rung on life’s ladder, she moves on to the next.
A spiritually energizing person is one who leaves you feeling positive after having been in their company.
3. Who or what makes you feel spiritually drained?
This is different than feeling physically drained. After a long day of work or of tending to kids, laundry, shopping, and housework you may feel physically, mentally, and/or emotionally drained and this can indeed affect you spiritually. What we’re talking about here though is what hits you in the spiritual zone. Who or what leaves you feeling like you’ve got a gaping hole in your soul? Could it be a lack of purpose in life, a negative relationship, or a dead-end job? Maybe someone in your life drains you?
A few things that have spiritually drained me are:
- Living in the desert. I truly needed to be in lush surroundings to feel spiritually energized so I moved back to Baltimore.
- Not following my life purpose. I tried my hand at public speaking and being a ghost writer. These two things drained me on many levels. Once I started writing my own books and helping others this way my spiritual self grew by leaps and bounds.
- Choosing the wrong men. Since I was used to seeing the men in my life abuse women, I naturally gravitated toward these dysfunctional relationships until I was spiritually awake. Only then did I start to attract positive men and ultimately found my soul mate.
The interesting thing about your spiritual self is it will know when something is right or wrong before you know it on an emotional, mental or physical level. You get a niggling sensation inside that says this person or situation is bad for you, yet we ignore it until we’re affected on other levels.
4. What are your top five energy boosters?
What healthy things do you do, or can you do, to make yourself feel more energized? Do you go for a walk, exercise, meditate, read a book, write in a journal, or play a game or sport? This is something personal to you and doesn’t necessarily mean you’re helping another person. Sure, we associate deep spirituality with reaching out to the world around us, but you need to nurture yourself as well.
When I need an energy boost I either crochet, watch a movie with a loved one, take a walk, or listen to music. These small things that bring me pleasure really help to lift me up spiritually. As I mentioned before, everything is connected within you. Something that affects you on one level--be it mentally, physically, emotionally or spiritually--is going to seep in and affect all other areas.
5. What or who requires too much spiritual energy at this time?
Even if something seems like a good cause or worthwhile activity, at this point in your life it may require far too much spiritual energy. Pursuing this activity or relationship may cause you to feel drained, disconnected, or frustrated.
Your spiritual path should be one that fills you with joy and peace. If there’s something in your life that isn’t contributing to your highest good, ask yourself if you really want to hold on to it. Sometimes, releasing someone or something is the quickest way to recapture spiritual energy and focus.
A few years ago I wanted to start volunteering since I knew it would add to my overall happiness and spiritual pursuits. Animals and domestic abuse are two of my top concerns. I went to several animal shelters to see how I could offer my volunteer services, though I quickly discovered it would require far more time and effort than I could comfortably provide. I didn’t want to feel drained or stressed out when I was trying to do the world a bit of good! Finally I found a few volunteer places that met my personal schedule. I crochet “comfort scarves” for abused women and help out with online science projects.
Pursuing a spiritual path should never leave you feeling tired or frustrated. Seek out those people and things that make you feel fulfilled.
If you found this exercise and information interesting and helpful, I hope you purchase my book. The ebook is only $2.99 Get your copy here: Become Your Higher Self
Contact me! If you do this exercise, I'd love to hear how it went, what you discovered, and your thoughts on it all. My goal in life isn't to tell you what to do and how to do it. Instead, I want to be there with you while you uncover your true being and become the person you've always dreamed of living the life you deserve and desire! Dr.Kelly.Psychic.Counselor@gmail.com

Light and blessings,

Kelly

Good Luck, Concidence, or Miracle? How Will You Know?

When it comes to those moments when a miracle takes place, will you know it? Will you recognize it as something truly special and not simply good luck or coincidence? The way I know a miracle has taken place in my life is because I feel differently inside. Not just a spark of happiness over something positive taking place, but when I witness a miracle and make the right decisions in my life I feel lighter. Do you ever notice how heavy you feel when life isn't going well? But when life is positive you stand taller, laugh more, breathe more deeply, and you walk differently. One of my client's actually hears a song in her head when a miracle has taken place. Another tends to whistle a tune. Over time you'll discover what your miracle clues are, and it's good to know this since very often your "logical" mind will try to talk you out of enjoying the miracle!

Living in this state of creating miracles means you're living life as your higher self, rather than at the mercy of your human, earth self. Your earth self is here to help keep you alive, but we often get into the trap of thinking this is all there is. This body of muscle and skin and bones is all there is to us. Nonsense! When you're living as your highest self you aren't guided by fear or boredom, but by passion, intuition and excitement. This is your true essence, your soul expressing itself. When you're living with true purpose and joy it becomes a miraculous life rather than one based on completing a mission or sitting on the sidelines watching good things happen to other people.

Keep your eyes open for your own personal miracles. They might not always be huge and life-altering, but could offer you small reasons to smile and keep your confidence strong when your day is otherwise stressful. Keeping a miracle journal is a great way to focus on the positive in your life and truly become a magnet for miracles. Go back over this journal and you'll see over time how many miracles you truly experience and how many more take place as you raise your aura energy. 

If you'd like to book a reading, please visit my website: Psychic Readings By Dr. Kelly

Still Struggling? Here's Why

Are you stuck in one or more areas of life and, no matter how hard you try, things stay the same or move forward at a snail’s pace? Why does this happen? Why are you still struggling despite your best efforts? How can you be successful?

The answers to these questions are actually pretty simple yet they might not be what you want to hear. It seems that most people are looking for the magic answer that will propel them from point A to point Z over night. It doesn’t work that way. I know you don’t actually expect instant results but you do want to see some results for your efforts, right? Then why is your life stubbornly stuck?

Whether you want to find your soulmate, get a better job, end your financial worries once and for all, shed those extra pounds, or find your life purpose, it all has to do with the connection between your brain and your soul. As you go through life you’re in a constant tug-of-war with your logical mind and your spiritual soul. Also, your gray matter has had some faulty programming along the way due to your past. What you grew up with is who you’ve become, like it or not. Sure, you can change it, but it takes time.

Maybe you’re aware that the past has really done a number on you or perhaps you’re totally oblivious. The bottom line is you want things to be different. A few of the reasons why your life isn’t moving or you can’t find what you’re looking for are:

The One Track Soul

The more I do readings the more I realize that the soul prefers to handle one problem at a time. Once that’s taken care of it can move on to something else. For example, I have several clients that have been struggling with their jobs. Some want out and want a better job but they can’t seem to find one. Others are dealing with negative people in the office who make it impossible to enjoy their work. Still others are simply bored and want a more fulfilling career. Since working takes up a great deal of time every day it’s naturally at the forefront of their mind. However, some of these clients also want to find their soulmate, but true love remains elusive. Why?

Since their careers are on their mind so much the brain and soul consider this a top priority and everything else is pushed aside. What you focus on expands. It doesn’t matter if Mr. or Ms. Right was standing in front of them, they wouldn’t notice this person or would somehow find fault. Their souls are in “career mode” and until they do something about it true love will be difficult, if not impossible, to find. This is the frustration of dealing with the one-track soul.

The best way to blast through this problem is to learn how to let things go and not bring them home with you, or to really rev up your career engines and get things moving. How often have you told yourself that you’re trying hard and doing all you can? Think about it though, are you really? Most of the time we spend far more time worrying and thinking than actually doing! Rather than dwelling on how badly you want things to change make a commitment to do something about it each and every day. Taking small steps will add up to big changes over time.

Karmic Lessons

This is the other reason why life gets stuck or we keep finding ourselves in the same situations again and again. In past lives and even our current life we’ve made mistakes, hurt others, and have hurt ourselves as well. A past life reading can uncover your most important karmic lesson at this time, but an easy way to find out what it is you need to heal and mend is to take a look at your life and see where it isn’t working. What’s the major problem right now? Is it the fact that you’re in a bad relationship or keep choosing people who don’t treat you right? Does money slip through your fingers no matter how careful you try to control it? Do you struggle with weight or anxiety or low self-esteem or anger or addictions or anything else that continuously holds you back? Read the rest here...

Three Steps To Happiness

Think about your life for a moment. Are you very happy, moderately happy, kind of happy, or perhaps rarely? The truth is that there are few people who consider themselves very or even moderately happy with their current lives.

First, it’s completely normal to have ups and downs. There’s no way that you can feel deliriously happy day and night. We have stress and problems and brain chemicals and hormones all wreaking havoc on our happiness, but if you find that your bad days outweigh the good then it’s time to step back and take a look at your life.

What are happier people doing that you aren’t? Here's one tip that will get you started on the road to happiness. It might seem too simple, but trust me, if you just start with this one suggestion you can have many more days where you feel positive and way less negative days.

Toss It Out

Yep, it's that plain and simple if you want to start living a happier life. We live in a society where too much is never enough. In reality, humans only need a few things to feel comfortable and happy. You need shelter, food, clothing, loved ones, and maybe a few personal items you enjoy having around. Any more than that and it’s just a burden.

1. Are your cupboards and closets filled with junk you haven’t used in years? If so, start tossing it out. It may be difficult at first but you’ll soon feel a sense of freedom. While you’re at it, get rid of all the junk food and junk people too. You aren’t doing your mind, body, or soul any good by interacting with people who make you angry or miserable, or filling your body with foods that are bad for you. 

2. This tip also goes for your negative thoughts. Like attracts like and if your mind is playing and replaying everything bad that has, is, and may happen to you then you're blocking the way for any positive energy or people to find you. Every time you catch yourself thinking something negative, mentally (or out loud) say "stop!" and replace it with something positive. What I did was to write down a list of twenty positive things in my life--past, present, future--and each time something bad popped into my mind I'd get out my list and replace it with something positive. While thinking or reading your positive statements, smile to yourself and place your right hand over your heart. This will help recondition your mind for happiness.

3. What about the people in your life? Of course, we sometimes have to work with or are related to people that annoy us, frustrate us, or just bring us down. Your best bet is to minimize your time spent around them. And, if it's someone you honestly don't need or want in your life, why not break off the relationship? In order to be truly happy you need to surround yourself with positive, happy people.

Once you get rid of these  things it will leave you with a lot of open space. Let the Universe help you fill those spaces with things that are more positive, happy and healthy for you!

Light and blessings,

Kelly (Psychic Readings By Dr. Kelly)

Contacting And Working With Your Spirit Guides

 Overcome Obstacles And Manifest Your Every Desire

We all have spirit guides in our lives who are ready, willing and able to help us … if we can only learn to connect with them and ask for help. This is where Contacting And Working With Your Spirit Guides - Overcome Obstacles And Manifest Your Every Desire! comes in. Whether you're seeking a soul mate, craving a new career, or frustrated with your finances, I take something that seems out of reach for so many and make it fun, easy and doable.

Once you finish reading this book and putting the short exercises into action you'll be communicating with your spirit guides on a daily basis. These wise and powerful beings can guide you in the right direction, helping you avoid pitfalls and bringing new opportunities your way. Pursuing your dreams and goals has never been this easy!

Have you met any of your guides or caught glimpses of them? Have you experienced any coincidences that later led to something positive? I'd love to hear your comments!

Light and blessings,

Kelly

Three Steps To Make The Law Of Attraction Work For You

There's really no secret to the law of attraction. In fact, there are three simple steps that will make it work for you. Whether you realize it or not, the law of attraction is always working in your life. Most people don't believe this is true since they believe that the law of attraction only brings good things.

If there aren't many positive things going on in their life then they think "the Law" isn't working for them, but the truth is that positive attracts positive and negative attracts negative. If you're life isn't filled with success, happiness, love, health and abundance you aren't using the law of attraction to benefit yourself, you're subconsciously focusing on negative and attracting that instead. But here's how to change it.

Make Your Intentions Clear

You have to know what you want before you can ask for it and start making the Law work for you. Knowing what you want isn't easy though. Sure, you instinctively know when you're hungry, hot, cold, thirsty, happy, afraid, and so on. The problem is, your conscious and subconscious is filled with so many thing from your past, present, and even future hopes and worries that it's difficult to focus on what you actually want at this point in time.

Think about what your truly want for your life and in your life. Make a list of at least 3-10 clear goals. Why do you want these things in your life? How will it help you or make you happier? Without clear intentions there's no way you can attract what you truly want and need.

Your conscious and unconscious thoughts produce everything you have in your life. If every part of your mind and soul aren't in sync with what you truly want to attract then you'll continue to live the life you've been living or live in chaos. When your conscious and subconscious are contrary to one another you'll defeat yourself every step of the way.

Visualize That It's Already Yours

Set aside a few minutes each morning and each evening to visualize what you want. Close your eyes and imagine in every detail what your life will be like if you had this (person/job/money/home/weight loss/etc.) in your life. Visualize yourself already having it in your life since this is very important in making the law of attraction work for you. Focusing on having what you want creates positive energy. It sends out vibrations into the world and universe that come back to you, bringing you what you desire most.

Be Ready To Receive

This is the one area where most people fail. They change their thoughts to focus on positive things, they do their visualization, but they simply can't open themselves up to receiving the abundance they crave. Whether they feel they don't deserve good things or have simply gotten into the habit of living life as-is, they usually hit a a wall at this point in their path.

You have every right to be as happy and successful as the next person. Nobody is born under a lucky star, we are all capable of greatness. Know that you can and will have all you desire then be open to receiving it.

What things do you hope to attract within the next 12 months and which things do you want to let go of? I'd love to hear from you!

Light and blessings,

Kelly (Psychic Readings By Dr. Kelly)

Achieving Happiness Through Meditation

They say if you want to be happy you simply have to act happy. But is this enough? I don't think so. You might be buried under debt, health problems, relationship issues, or have simply gotten into the habit of thinking negatively. It's really easy to see the glass as half empty.  How can you be happy when you've got so many obstacles in your life? Interestingly enough, studies have shown that if you think positive rather than negative then life is much happier and you're more able to find solutions to problems.

It all comes back to you

What we give out we receive, so if you're giving out happy vibes then those will come back to you. You'll find that more opportunities come your way and that life isn't nearly as gray as you once thought it was. Makes sense, right? A good life filled with good people, good health, and enough money is what makes people happy. So how can you get into this positive mindset?  Through meditation.

How to meditate

There are many ways to meditate and no one way is better than the next. All I do when life is getting the best of me or when I need some guidance is to take a time out. I go into my room, light a few candles and incense, put on a nature CD then sit on my bed and close my eyes. For a few minutes I just focus on my breathing and consciously relax every part of my body.

When I feel good and relaxed I ask my spirit guides to help me with a current problem, or the strength to not wring someone's neck if they've really upset me. Yes, meditation is great for overcoming anger! Sometimes I receive pictures in my mind or words, other times it's just a "knowing" as to how to solve a problem, and at times I don't get anything but do feel confident that I'll get the information I need when the Universe is ready.

How meditation makes you happy

Being happy really is a frame of mind, but you need to get into that mindset and then recall how you got to that point until it becomes habit. This is why meditation is so helpful. When you're feeling negative it causes stress in your mind, body, and soul. When you're stressed you feel negative.  It's a vicious circle and meditation can break it. As you meditate you relax and this opens up doorways to possibilities that you can't find when you're tightly closed off by negativity.

Does this mean that you're going to feel happy 24/7 if you meditate? Not a chance! We're human, at least while on Earth, and life is tough. Not to mention you've got all of these chemicals and hormones running around inside you and things happening externally that can affect your mood. But, I can guarantee that if you meditate just for a few minutes each day you will be happier in all areas of your life. Every one of my clients that meditates emails me to say how amazing they feel when they do it and how they feel lost, lazy, depressed and negative when they stop.

It won't happen over night

Your life didn't get to where it is over night and it won't change that quickly either. Think of it like digging a ditch. You've been digging for awhile and you're used to being in this ditch, but meditation will help you to fill the negative ditch up and get you back on a happier path in life.

It's a matter of choices

Every day you're faced with dozens of choices and those choices you make get you to where you'll be tomorrow and years from now. So, every decision you made in the past got you to where you are at this point in time. Yes, you can say that outside influences caused your problems, but in reality it was the choices you made. That's really hard for most people to accept, but once you do it's very freeing! If you made bad choices yesterday then guess what? You can make good choices today and tomorrow.

By taking the time to meditate and think about who you are, what you have, and what you truly want and need, you'll be loosening yourself up and opening doorways of possibility. Start meditating about some basic changes you want to make in your life. If you refuse to make changes then you'll just keep living the life you have at the moment. However, just a few minutes of meditation each day can help you discover true happiness.

If you need some help finding your way out of a current situation, if you want to know what good changes await you, or if you have a problem or goal you need guidance on, a psychic reading can really help.

Do you think that happiness is simply a mindset or is it more than that? If you've ever meditated, did you have a good experience? Was it easy? Do you do it regularly? If not, why? I'd love to hear from you!

Light and blessings,

Kelly (Psychic Readings By Dr. Kelly)