Goal-Setting Mistakes - How To Accomplish Your Dreams

Have you had a longstanding goal that you've tried and tried to accomplish yet it never gets done? You might have struggled with it for years, seen some positive glimpses of fruition here and there, but somehow it's always out of reach. There are some very good reasons for it that just might surprise you!

1. Have Clear Goals That Excite You

The truth is, only 5 out of every 100 people achieve the success they desire. So what’s so special about successful people? How are they different? Why are they succeeding at their dreams and you aren’t? The answer is easy, successful people know exactly what they want and they stop at nothing to achieve it. They don’t let that fearful little voice inside sabotage them, nor do they let the negativity in their past control them. Despite poverty, abuse, health problems, or other obstacles, they excelled.

2. Stay Focused No Matter What

People who fail are really not that different than those who succeed. (Trust me, I've failed many, many times!) After all, they too want to fulfill their dreams and accomplish their goals. The problem is, their minds are all over the place and their past holds them back. They begin working on a goal with complete determination, only to lose steam once they lose sight of their destination, they suffer a setback, or those old patterns rise to the surface.

3. Know What You Want And Why

You can’t succeed at something if you have no idea why you want to achieve it for yourself. Many of us go through life failing at success simply because we’re chasing dreams that aren’t ours. Perhaps these dreams belonged to our parents; it’s what they wanted for us but not what we truly want. Or maybe the dreams you’re chasing found their way into your mind due to what you’ve seen in the media or read in a motivational book. If we followed the media route, we'd forever be chasing the "rich, famous, and beautiful" route. Talk about stress!

4. Release Outgrown Dreams

Or, you may have had this dream when you were much younger and thought all along that this is what you truly want, but as time went on you couldn't admit to yourself that the goal was no longer important. Somehow, we see it as failure if we give up on a dream path that used to be important to us yet we never accomplished it. Why be so hard on yourself? You're meant to change and grow throughout life! I wanted to be a nurse when I was younger and for many years it bothered me that I never accomplished that dream. As I got older I realized that it was a "younger me dream" but I had since outgrown it and wanted to take a different type of healing path.

5. Make New Goals That Align With The Current You

You need to be driven in order to accomplish your goals. All of your energy and motivation comes from the desire to succeed at your very own personal dreams. If you have one or more things on your "to do list" that have been sitting there for months, years, even decades, ask yourself if this is something you really want or if the desire came from some outside influence or yesterday's you. Once you're honest with yourself you should feel a sense of a relief, more clarity, and eagerness to move forward with what truly matters to you. 

If you know what you want and are completely focused on achieving it, if you know why you want it and will do whatever it takes to make it happen, then you can’t possibly fail. You will succeed to one degree or another.

What have you been chasing for years yet never accomplished? Who taught you that this was the right path for you? If you could release all of those unfinished tasks and start on something new and you, what would it be? I'd love to hear your thoughts in the comment section! 

Light and blessings,

Kelly - Psychic Readings by Dr. Kelly

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When Nothing Is Going Right

This is an excerpt from my best selling book Working With Your Angels.

There may be times when you feel like your life is utterly in the garbage. Your health, love life, finances, job, family, everything, all of it is beyond hope. There’s just too much junk going on in so many areas, how could you possibly ever heal and be happy? Even if you did ask your angels for help, where would they begin?!

Believe it or not, the more messed up you think your life is, the times when you feel nothing is going right, that’s when your angels want to help the most! They love rolling up their sleeves and showing you just how much they love you and what they can do for you. When you’re at a place where you just don’t care anymore you let go, and that’s when the magic starts to happen--if you allow it and pay attention to their guidance.

But when life feels so negative, how will you know your angels are around and helping? Here are some signs to look out for:

1. You’ve been holding something in for some time and you finally explode and tell this person what you’ve been thinking and feeling. You’re so angry! Guess what? Your angels gave you the courage to finally claim your dignity and self-esteem by expressing yourself. Of course, that doesn’t mean they want you to go around yelling at everyone, but finally speaking your mind and getting something off your chest is part of the healing process.

2. You begin experiencing coincidences, synchronicity, and seeing angelic signs more and more. You might see more rainbow symbols, doves, or peace signs. You could begin seeing angel statues or images, and words like love, peace, joy, and hope more often. You may also hear more people and children laughing when you’re out and about. Your angels are helping to bring these positive things back into your life.

3. You hear from a friend or relative you haven’t talked to in awhile and they said they were thinking about you and wanted to reconnect. People may seem friendlier and more helpful. You could get more compliments and smiles from strangers.

4. You may receive or find small surprises such as finding money on the ground outside, or getting a gift from someone. It could be something minor like a co-worker buying you lunch or a friend giving you a book you’ve wanted to read. Your partner could, out of the blue, take you out to dinner or prepare dinner for you. Any number of small surprises could take place, sent by your angels, helping to restore your faith and happiness.

Your angels know what it’s like to be human and how hard life can be. The material world is filled with stress, pressure, responsibilities, obligations, money issues, health crises, family and relationship problems, and so much more. But nothing lasts forever. No matter how negative things may seem right now, it will pass. Give it all to your angels. Every bit of the garbage and insecurity and anger and resentment and worry and whatever else. Hand it over to them. Ask for help. Vow to be open to their assistance and their signs. Take action when it comes.

Learn more about Contacting and Working with your Angels!

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Aura Cleansing and Changing Colors

A very quick and easy way to work on changing your aura is to sit or lay down when you feel most relaxed. I always recommend in the morning when you first get up and at night when you’re ready to go to bed. These are the best times to meditate because it gets into your subconscious much easier. Imagine yourself with a glass egg around you. Inside this egg is a swirling aura of black and white. The black represents self-protection and any negativity present in your life. White is the color of cleansing and total renewal.

Now visualize a bright rainbow light being sent down from your guide into the top of the egg, penetrating it, shattering it. The black and white aura colors start drifting away from you like smoke clouds, the rainbow light filling up every area of your body inside and out until you are completely immersed in it. You may begin to feel warm all over, tingle, or notice something different about your mind and body that shows this is working. 

At this point imagine the rainbow light exiting through your feet, taking any and all negativity with it down into the center of the earth where it's burned up. At this point you are empty and cleansed.

Allow any color to begin blossoming in the center of your chest. The color that comes to you is the color you need at this point in your life. This colored light fills you completely from head to toes, attracting a life mate and/or the type of life you desire. Envision being out in public and this new and beautiful aura all around you, reaching out to people, and attracting a wonderful mate, a wonderful life. If you are seeing your soul mate, feel his/her energy as well. This will help greatly so that when you do meet the person you will recognize their energy. Don't try to put a face to them unless it comes easy. Just immerse yourself in the energy here.
 
Once you are at this point you can end the meditation. It should only take a couple of minutes or as long as you would like. Go through your day and see if things are different. You should notice that decision-making is easier, you can think more clearly, you have more energy, and opportunities to make healthy, prosperous life changes come more often.

You can always do this meditation whenever you feel you need a recharging. I suggest doing this at least once a day to keep your new aura energy strong.

Want to learn more about your aura? You can learn so much through my book Energy Work - Heal, Cleanse, and Strengthen your Aura. If you prefer a reading, I'll tell you what color(s) your aura is right now, what symbols your aura is projecting, if there are any dark or cold areas, holes or weaknesses, and more. Along with your aura reading, I'll also offer you quick and easy ways to heal your aura, clear out anything negative that’s hanging around, strengthen it and choose the color you want to give off. Talk about something that’s empowering! It’s wonderful to know that you really can control your energy and use it to your benefit rather than being at the mercy of it. Book your personal and in-depth aura or a psychic reading now!

Light and blessings,

Kelly

Why Bad Things Happen To Good People

A few weeks ago I got an email from someone who had finished reading one of my books. I want to share it with you.

Hey Kelly, I am another fan of yours. I just read your spirit guide book and it is quite fascinating. Just out of curiosity what proof do you have that these are absolute facts? If these coincidences are not coincidences but something from the spirits, how is it that the holocaust and all the other travesties happened to good people? I'm not trying to be a heckler and make no mistake I do like your work but asking questions never hurts.

Thank you for your kind email. I'm so glad you've enjoyed my books! I also appreciate and welcome your questions. I, too, believe that we should all keep asking questions and keep an open mind.

By no means do I feel I know it all. I'm no messiah or the voice of God. Instead, I'm someone who's merely a few more steps ahead on the spiritual path than others might be. Everything I relay is from personal experience and information given to me by my clients after 20+ years. In the beginning, I was the most skeptical person you'd ever meet! But, after so many things happened in my own life, and witnessing it in others, I had no choice but to believe that higher beings and a higher self exists.

I guess what it all comes down to is faith. In some ways I don't like this word because it says we must simply believe rather than having proof. Though, I feel I've experienced enough personal proof to put faith in my faith. I consider myself a scientific/spiritual person.

That's an excellent question about the Holocaust and other travesties. We can look at it a few ways, though which one is correct, if any?

1. Population control (as awful as that sounds!)

2. Sacrifice for the sake of learning. (These people who lost their lives needed to leave the Earth realm at that point in time. Their passing may have been a way to teach friends, loved ones, and/or the world some valuable lessons. Also, there may have been karmic issues involved with the victims.)

3. Ignoring the signs. In some instances there were warning signs that victims chose to ignore. As with the Holocaust, many Jews (and others) saw the danger and fled, while others chose to believe the government and stayed, or felt there was no other way. Pretty soon they didn't have a choice. In my own life there have been signs I've ignored and later paid the price for, and times that I've followed the signs and reaped the benefits.

Those are the top three "reasons" that come to my mind right now. As humans we put a lot of importance on the human body and suffering. And why wouldn't we? We all want to be happy and healthy! However, sometimes it's through suffering that we grow and learn the most. Think of times in your life when you went through something sad, depressing, stressful, even devastating. Those times push you out of your comfort zone. They force you to examine your life and your choices, and very often new paths open up to you. If life is always sunshine and rainbows we won't grow. We become complacent.

I'm not saying I agree or support war, murder, genocide, and the like, I'm simply trying to look at it from the point of view of the soul rather than that of the human psyche. I'm still learning and growing too!

Thank you for the wonderful email.

Bright blessing to you!

Kelly

Freedom From Negativity

How often do you repeat negative things to yourself, sabotage your best efforts, and continue on the path of destructive behavior when it comes to your work, finances, health and love? Even if you aren’t aware of your negative self-talk or self-sabotage, if you’re life isn’t where you want it to be, I can guarantee you’re doing it. No matter how hard you’ve tried to succeed you just can’t get to where you want to be.  

Many people will simply accept their life as-is, even if they aren’t happy or fulfilled. They figure that this is what fate has dished out and there’s nothing they can do about it. They remain prisoners of their own negative thinking, and thoughts equal action or inaction.

It’s never too late to turn things around and enjoy freedom from negativity. One of the first keys to mind power success is realizing and accepting that you manifest everything in your life. Whether you’re overweight, lonely, broke, or hate your job, you’ve attracted it into your life. This is where some people will stop reading. They don’t want to believe they’ve invited negative people or situations into their life. They refuse to take responsibility and so they’ll always remain victims. What this means is whether they won the lottery, found Mr. or Ms. Right, or any other good thing came their way they’d find some way to mess it up and get right back to where they were before.

They wouldn’t recognize a good thing if it fell in their laps. Why? Because of subconscious programming. Your brain can only recognize what it’s used to seeing and experiencing. This means you’ll live a life of suffering, struggling, or stagnation because you’re used to it.

Many programs and exercises may not help at all or only work for a short time since they don’t go deep down where early life experiences and memories are rooted. Although you may find success temporarily those habitual ways of thinking and reacting will overpower your attempt to free yourself. That’s why so many people buy book after book, hoping to find the answer that will finally help them turn everything around.

So how do you disrupt this early childhood programming? It’s easier than you think. The reason we grope around in the dark and never find our way in life is because we have so much belief in what we’ve learned. If your father said you were stupid then you must be stupid. If your mother said you were fat or lazy then you must be fat or lazy. It doesn’t mean you like it or want it, you just believe it.

Once you begin to challenge your way of thinking and start to question the “facts” you’ve learned along the way, you’ll be able to release the faulty programming since you won’t believe it anymore. You can allow your adult mind to form new beliefs and will be able to act based on these. In time, if you no longer find these helpful you can form different beliefs until you find what works for you. Always, always question your beliefs, especially if you aren’t happy with where your life is. You don’t have to remain a prisoner of what your parents or other adults programmed into your mind, you can have freedom from negativity.

In my best selling book Reprogram Your Subconscious I go into much more detail on how to change your negative thinking habits. I also cover subjects such as programming yourself for wealth, attracting and keeping true love, the healing power of the mind, getting past self-sabotage, reprogramming your mind in three easy steps, and much, much more. Get your copy now and start changing your life today!

Light and blessings,

Kelly

How To Create Good Luck

You may know people who seem to have been born lucky, but if you look closely you’ll see that most of them follow a few simple guidelines that actually CREATE good luck. Now you can have this “secret recipe” and create a fountain of good luck in your own life. Remember, practice makes perfect, so don’t give up. These methods do work at helping to create luck!   

Keep Your Goals Flexible

When we have preconceived notions of how we THINK things should work out, we end up closing many doors to other possibilities. Say for example that you want this one particular job or person. Your mind is set on this one goal and that’s that. Nothing or nobody else will do. You have your vision board, your affirmations, your prayers, your self-hypnosis sessions, or whatever else you put into practice for goal-attainment. With your laser beam focus you concentrate on that one lone prize. You wait, and wait, and wait yet it never comes. Meanwhile, unknown to you, whole parades of other opportunities have passed you by! The Universe listens and sends us what we need to be happy and successful, yet too many times we’re closed off to this because we’re too focused on what we think we want.

Get Out Of Your Way

Yes, you may be getting in your own way. This happens when we try too hard or focus on the negative in our lives and not the positive. Like a silent mantra we repeat over and over again all of the bad things in our lives, all of the things we don’t want, and are completely oblivious to all of the good things. Everyone has some positive things going on. Instead, we unconsciously set up negative barriers all around us that are so wide and tall that opportunity couldn’t possibly find its way to us. We need to focus on the positive so the Universe will send more of it. We need to move forward with confidence rather than yearning for complete control. We need to believe that things will happen as they should for our own highest good. Count your blessings and they'll multiply!

Let Go Of Fear

This is a biggie! As humans we’re creatures of habit, even bad habit. We fear change because we don’t know what will happen. Even if our life isn’t where we’d like it to be, at least we know where it is. When we open ourselves up to change that’s pretty scary. Sure, we know what we’d like to happen, we try to focus on being positive, but still we hang on to the edge of that cliff for fear that we’ll fall rather than fly. Practice taking small risks and making tiny changes so that you grow comfortable with it. Once you stretch yourself beyond your current comfort zone, you’ll never go back. Soon you’ll look on your old life and wonder why you were so afraid to leave it behind.

Practice Patience

Whether you’re trying to lose weight, become financially stable, build a business, or repair your marriage, expecting huge changes right away is the quickest route to disappointment. We get frustrated and give up too quickly when the scale doesn’t move or our bank account stays in the negative. Things didn’t get as they are overnight. The way your life is right now is a sum total of every decision you’ve ever made. It’s the result of action and inaction.  Anything worth achieving takes time.

By following these guidelines and moving forward with courage, confidence, and perseverance, you can create good luck in your life every day. Each moment is filled with choices; commit to making the best ones possible!

Light and blessings,

Kelly